April 2nd, 2012, 9:15 am

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daviddoesntgetit April 1st, 2012, 9:20 am

"I hope my questions don’t come out as rude or to private, I mean no harm I promise. How does one realize that you’re asexual? Is it an aversion of the sexual relationship? Does it have to do with a lack of need or is it more of an aversion? How did your parents react when that you and your sister were asexual? You can still fall in love, right? Have you ever fallen in love?"

Miriam neglected to mention but she did have a boyfriend. Briefly. She stated one of the reason for their breakup was that she didn’t want to have to go to his birthday party.

If any of you are at all curious about asexuality, you can check out http://www.asexuality.org/home/. I don’t.

Ah, I remember when it was a scrappy site with some of the worst web design work I had ever seen. How far its come.

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Kavanomo (Guest) April 16th, 2012, 10:40 pm

"like poop"

so eloquent

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*Sigh*

lil_shiro April 19th, 2012, 1:50 am

This whole Asexual thing has got me really confused because, like any other person I want kids. But I really don't want to have sex or don't really have the urge to "do it." This is the first time I have ever heard of it and I really truly believe I might be asexual. Most of my friends call me weird and sometimes gay because I tell them I would rather have a, how should I put it, "Spiritual" relationship where me and my partner really know each other inside and out. And I really only want to have sex for reproductive purposes. I'm not really sure but..I'm..I'm just so confused now. >_<

How dare you confuse me like this David! XD

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daviddoesntgetit April 20th, 2012, 3:27 am

@Kavanomo: Well, I am a writer.

@lil_shiro: Ah, I see. Well, I think to Miriam about it a little bit. I don't really have the urge to have kids 'cause I have Miriam and Connor preoccupying me and the rest of the kids in the family, haha.

But you can still be asexual and have kids, artificial insemination is always an option. It just sucks you have to shell out all that money just 'cause you don't want sex, haha.

I asked Miriam and she said she might be able to do it just to have kids. But it was a huge maybe.

As in, bad sci-fi, adam and eve plot maybe. Haha.

Hey, it's ok if you're confused. Haha, wait. I'm sorry! Haha. If you need any help and if you think I can help, I'd be more than willing.

Just it takes time and I can only help to a certain point, you have to figure it out on your own.

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lil_shiro April 24th, 2012, 7:37 pm

@daviddoesntgetit: I have been reading well into the AVEN site and I got most of my questions answered. But thanks for the offer. If I happen to come across anything I'm not to sure or positive on I will be sure to ask. :D Thanks David.

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bakura240 July 7th, 2012, 9:28 am

I find it odd because I'd never really heard of asexuality until I got to university. I have a friend who has no interest in guys except for her best friend who she calls her husband... that and she has a deep love for Misha Collins.

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krissymonett October 10th, 2012, 6:57 pm

Late comment but this might seem weird but I can relate to miriam a lot. I don't have the need for sex yet I can watch two gay males. I can feel feelings for people (where I differ from her) yet I won't want to have sex with them. Embarrassingly, I'm kinda afraid of sex or at least penetration(sounds weird saying it). But I also don't really like the institution of marriage now as a bonus lol. So figuring out my sexuality has always been a problem for me. I just assume I'm straight since people believe everyone is born straight -eye roll- but I learned about the world of asexuality a while ago and I'm still not sure if I'm comfortable with it yet.

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DamnItSammit March 9th, 2013, 9:09 pm

I believe I'm in the same boat as Miriam; I think gay relationships are the cutest things! (Guys of course), but I'm not really into dating at all, and nothing else seems to catch my interest. I think some people are good looking, but can't see them in a sexual way, and if I even think about it, it just doesn't appeal to me. : (

A lot of my (old..ex) friends just assumed that I was a closeted gay....

I also find it hard to make friends, because people just bother me too much, and I have a hard time trusting people...

I currently only have 2 friends left from high school....and the others I really didn't consider "friends," just annoying people that hung around me.


I must admit though...I think I have sort of an "interest" in my best friend, but not sexually...AGGGHHH...I can't even start with how I feel! I just want to be closer to them....but not that close.....I just don't kow....