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daviddoesntgetit November 15th, 2014, 11:53 pm

Stephanie finally left a couple days ago. It was a lot of fun, it was mostly her, Miriam, Ajeet, and Connor playing video games together and I cooked meals for them.

Sometimes Ajeet will have to hang out with us while Miriam and Stephanie played the more porn games... I should draw some of that out but I had this around for awhile.

Mutual friends will often ask me things about Brad but I never usually have the answer, he's kind've a mystery to me and I'm fine with that. But I do worry about him.

Even now I will try to awkwardly try to comfort him with an extremely awkward hug which, sometimes, makes him laugh by the awkwardness. I try.

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Reealt November 16th, 2014, 12:39 am

You two have a very sweet friendship, and from what it sounds like, Brad really appreciated your support.

I feel kind of shitty whenever I have breakdowns, and having someone just there tp support me, even if not physically, is super helpful.

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Crystaldragon November 16th, 2014, 8:39 am

I wouldn't completely blame an aversion to physical contact on asexuality, to be honest. I'm bisexual and have the exact same problem! XD I always try, though, and I've been told that trying at least does a little bit to help.

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Oly-RRR November 16th, 2014, 6:27 pm

Some people don't process certain stuff with words even in their heads. Or have a bunch of other reasons not to talk, which aren't exactly being secretive. Whatever it is, I think you're being a good friend there. Even though I bet it's really frustrating at times!

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yaoi4evandnevayuri November 17th, 2014, 6:16 pm

Dammit... Now I'M crying... *sniffs*
I remember when I had a crush on one of my friends. And I would always want to be around them and things. But it hurt knowing she would never like me the same way (Even though she was a lesbian and I was a chick/ I just wasn't her type... xD). It was really heart breaking. I know this isn't the same thing, but MAN, now I'm thinking of her again... >.>' Dammit, now I'm depressed.

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daviddoesntgetit November 20th, 2014, 11:49 pm

@Reealt: I always feel worthless whenever he has a breakdown so if he does, that's great.

Yeah, breakdowns are something else. Everything just comes crashing down and you're just left wondering if you can keep going. The most insane part is when it's over and since you feel better, you do it all again.

@Crystaldragon: Ah, well, I don't blame my aversion to physical contact on my asexuality since I know plenty of normal people who feel the same way. It's just cultural or depends on how you were raised but I like blaming it on that anyways, haha.

I didn't grow up with a very touchy-feely family so the idea of hugging is very uncomfortable with me.

Oh, try to do what? Try not to constantly touch people? Haha. That was phrased oddly.

@Oly-RRR: Ah, by secrets I mean when we're not together, he never really tells me about it. I know he still meets up with his mom and family, rarely, but sometimes, but he never tells me about what transpired, even when Amy asked.

But maybe you're right, maybe he just can't process it into words. In that case, all the more reason for me to practice patience.

@yaoi4evandnevayuri: Ah, sorry to hear that. Sorry, I wish I had more to say on romantic things, haha. Sounds like it was rough, to say the least.

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Crystaldragon November 21st, 2014, 9:46 am

Try to comfort other people, sorry. X) But yeah, there's definitely a lot of factors influencing whether you're a huggy person. (Oddly enough, both my parents were fairly touchy-feely and huggy, so I'm not sure where my aversion lies.)

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roxjey November 22nd, 2014, 12:23 am

i guess it can be hard sometimes
when you want to help someone but you dont know how

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daviddoesntgetit November 22nd, 2014, 7:07 pm

@Crystaldragon: Oh, sorry, I was saying my phrasing was odd, not yours, haha. You don't have to apologize for anything.

Eh, who knows. If we could just figure out all our current behaviors by simply looking into the past, everyone would raise their kids the exact same way and have the exact same offspring. I don't like the idea of being tied down to the past too much, to be honest, haha.

@roxjey: Yeah, just try your best, I suppose.

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Crystaldragon November 22nd, 2014, 10:08 pm

This is true. ^^