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daviddoesntgetit June 9th, 2015, 5:02 am

I'm pretty fucking tired all the fucking time now.

I don't want to talk too much about it just yet but taking a baby is nerve wracking, especially when you weren't expecting to do so. Bernard's read all the books and done his research, I haven't.

I do like having Joshua next to me at night. He's taken Connor's spot but I worry about rolling over and killing him. I worry about killing him all the time.

I'm so scared all the time now and tired.

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Reealt June 9th, 2015, 12:49 pm

Yikes about the PPD. It happens, and there's no good way to prevent it. I hope you, Bernard, Mai, and Joshua are okay.

If you're worried about rolling over Joshua at night, maybe try a crib in the same room with you? Or maybe even every other night, so you can lessen your worries even slightly.

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yaoi4evandnevayuri June 9th, 2015, 2:47 pm

No pillows in the crib! xD
I hope you guys all feel better...

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Lurker (Guest) June 9th, 2015, 8:41 pm

Hey David, been a lurker here and love your comics (been reading them since 2013). Like the others said, have a crib next to your bed just in case. When my little nephew was born, we put his crib next to our bed. :>

And in case you want to know more on how to calm a baby down, what we did with our nephew was making sure the temp wasn't too hot or too cold, dim some lights (since too much stimulation can jangle a newborn's nerves), but if those two doesn't work try and give him a baby massage.

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Gore-chan June 15th, 2015, 5:50 pm

That's extremely rough and I'm so sorry. They're so lucky to have you in their lives to help, because I can't imagine how much more difficult it would be without you there.
You're an amazing and caring person, and that your family is so lucky to have you.

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roxjey June 16th, 2015, 10:47 am

Man, thats rough, i hope she gets better and i'm sure you will get the hang of it, You are the best uncle ever now XD

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daviddoesntgetit July 9th, 2015, 6:37 pm

@Reealt: Thank you. Yeah he didn't have a crib at first 'cause we thought his stay at my place was more temporary than what it is now. I have to thank you and a lot of other people for baby advice, I didn't get to reply until not but I read it a while ago and it's been helping me be less nervous.

I enjoy lying with him in my bed though as we watch tv.

@yaoi4evandnevayuri: Haha. That's as much as I knew too, and thanks.

@lurker: Yeah, there's a crib now. Didn't put one in earlier 'cause we thought his stay was going to be shorter. Thank you though. If you have any more advice I'd actually really appreciate it.

Yeah. I've been putting him on his stomach more, I was really scared at first at accidentally suffocating him but he keeps his face free so I can rub his back. It's soothing for the both of us.

@Gore-chan: Haha, holy shit, I'm not that amazing, I honestly just feel like it's the least I could do after all Bernard's done for me, y'know? He's my brother and it's my nephew, I wish I could do more, honestly.

@roxjey: Hahaha. Thank you, again, not amazing, just doing my best but thank you, regardless. I'm still scared to be alone with Joshua but that makes me feel better.